INVEST IN RELATIONSHIP

The litmus test for true friendship is trying times. Anyone who can identify with you in your days of penury is worth keeping as a true friend.

Obviously, when you start climbing the success ladder you will meet new friends which is normal and natural but never forget those who were there for you before you climbed.

Never write off any man because he's nothing today, its only for today, do you know about his tomorrow? With my little years on earth, I have discovered that you must VALUE and INVEST in every relationship irrespective of their family, social, economic and educational background.

You shouldn't rate any body by where he is now but rate him by the vision he carries and the steps he's taking to fulfilling it.

I have seen people who tried in helping people but at the end when their morning comes they have little misunderstanding that set the relationship ablaze. What they most time look at is the end point forgetting the former investments.

It's true that your exit will be remembered longer than your entry and better is the end than the beginning of anything. So in whatever you do to anyone irrespective of who they are and their circumstances, always look at the end. Always show some little kindness because what goes round comes around. 

I once heard of Cristiano Ronaldo who presently play for Real Madrid, the world best player who is a Champion's League winner. In his formative days while on trial to what he is now, in a match that would decide the up turn of his career, the one with the highest goal would be taken as the striker (or what you call it), he and his friend, Albert Frantrau were both on a 1-1, and his friend had the opportunity of scoring the goal that would have granted him the ticket, he passed the ball to C.Ronaldo who scored and was eventually picked.
He asked his friend while he could make such costly decision, his friend told him that He (C.Ronaldo) can do better in it that he has other options to heartily pursue. Today his friend is on his pay roll while he's doing other meaning stuff with his life (story not verified).

How often have we missed our pay roll by simply rendering that helping hand.
IDENTIFY, VALUE and INVEST in every relationship, it will always help you. You only receive HELP by HELPing others reach their goal-destination.
 

Do have a wonderful week ahead!

LET YOUR ACTION SPEAK

Often times I hear people responding braggadaciously (don't mind the word, I guess you know what I meant) to victims of circumstance they couldn't get away with. I have often hear people say "if I was the one, I would never do a thing like that." Hold it right there Mr. All Perfect! Save those talk for yourself until you face similar issue, only then you will know that their yielding point after their strain was more than you can stand.

Don't tell me you're Honest until you face what makes you Dishonest Don't tell me you're Faithful until you face what will make you Unfaithful Don't tell me you're Reliable until you see what makes you Unreliable. Don't tell me you've Integrity until you face what will question it. Don't tell me you're Lovely until you see what will make you Hate. Don't tell me you're Trustworthy until you face what will make you Untrustworthy Don't tell me you're Tolerant until you see what makes you Intolerant. Don't tell me...just go through the test and let it speak for itself.

A word for those who love to criticize others over their shortcoming! Remember you don't have immunity, you'll also be tested.

Am I advocating that those who fall victims should continue in it? No! Rather take a stand and tell yourself "I was known for this...yesterday, today is a new day, I have turn a new leaf, so if you are looking for the unfaithful, unreliable, intolerable, hateful, untrustworthy, disrespectful man check yesterday but if you are looking for the Faithful, Tolerable, Trustworthy, Reliable, Lovely and Honest person...here I am! I'm a working PROJECT who achieves milestone every single moment."

Thank God for the persons we are now, He has truly done great work in us, like Chris Delvan would say "we came from the back side of the mountain, he has done work in us, he arrested us, he arrested our development in iniquity, now we can take a stand because His dominion is incontestable"

Be grateful to God always for this great work because you're not where you use to be even if you haven't gotten to your destination yet.

Good day friends.